🕶️ Urban Does Not Equal Black or Brown. Black x Brown People Don’t All Live Urban Lives. Some Live Suburban x Rural Lives. Some Of Us Live All Three. According To TAYsearch : “urban" simply means relating to a city. It's the opposite of "rural," which refers to countryside areas. Urban areas are typically characterized by high population density and are where many people live, work and shop. I Was Born x Raised In NYC Brownstones🗽x Doorman MidRises.
🕶️We Had A Modest Sized Home In The Suburbs 2,800 Square Feet (Kinda Cheap Lookin But Close To Tutors x Sports) That’s The House That My Musty Family Member Gambled Away Summer 16. It Foreclosed On A Tiny $1.4mil ReFi Mortgage That I Refused To Help Pay. The House Was Not Worth A $1 Tah Me. Jussssst Ridiculous.
🕶️Using A Home As An ATM Is Always A Bad Idea. My Family Member That Gambled Away That House Was Soooo Embarrassed. I Wasn’t At All. GTFOH With That Musty Living Off Loans Sh*t. It’s Not Worth It. And It Cheapens x Weakens You. Especially As A BAP. JMO
🕶️🤍 Etha Ya Got It Or Ya Don’t 😌. If You Don’t, Go Get It x Learn From Your Stupid Mistake. Did I Have The Cash To Pay Off The Entire House? Yes. But It Was Not Worth $1 x The Person That Gambled It Away Needed To Let Go, Learn x Grow. (BTW, They Did) Some People Only Grow Through Pain. But I Digress.🧐 It Was Time Tah Move. That House Didn’t Even Have A Gate W/ A Guard 💂Tres Unsafe.
🕶️ We Also Lived/Live On A Huge Farm Estate In A Rural Area Outside The City. 30,000 Square Feet. It Gives 20mil Magicallllll. It’s Still In The Family. PAID IN FULL. Same For The Houses We Sold For A Profit In 2018 In Short Hills x In Alpine. Nooo Loans 😂. The Thought Of Losing A Property Makes My Ass Itch. That’s Why I Don’t Live Above My Means x Everything We Own Has To Make Us Money Or I Don’t Want It . 🤍
🕶️I Own My pied-à-terre At The Plaza. Very Cute x Profitable. Life Can Be So Ghetto Sometimes, But I Never Pretend x I Know Im Blessed With Assets x Many Well Kept Living Options (London, Paris, Toronto, Honolulu, Houston Etc)So I Don’t Complain. I’ve Always Been Good At Pivoting x Problem Solving Without Folding. As Long As I Got My Iced Coffee x My Brain x My Heart, I’m Good. 😇
🕶️ One Thing I Know How To Do Is Create x Make x Maintain Money 😍😍 I Don’t Care What Something Looks Like As Long As I Know What It Actually Issssss. So I Can Move Accordingly. If That Makes Sense. 🙂
🕶️I Don’t Talk A lot Because I’m A Doer x Because Opps Copy Me x Mimic My Persona. Some Mentally iLL Mimic Will Have This Same Story As Her/His Own After Reading This. People Are Burnt Out. They Don’t Realize That They Can’t Mimic My Outside x Not Copy My Inside. That Inside Takes Work x Discipline. No Short Cuts. You’re Not Fooling Anybody. People Can Feel The Lack Of Peace. They Know The Real From The Fake. It’s A Vibe. :) It’s Not On Me It’s In Me. But Go Off Tho 🙄
🕶️ On A Brighter Note, These PrincessTAY .925 Sterling Silver Kitty Cats With The Rose Gold Bows Are Back In Stock. I Wear These In My 3rd Hole (Ear Lobe ) . I’ve Worn It In My Nose As Well And It Looks Cute 2. I Just Had To Use A Screw Back Earring So It Does Not Slip Out 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
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